Marriages in Karachi

It is said that marriages are made in heaven and celebrated on the earth, Normally a person marry once in a life time and it is yet the best part of his/her life. Different peoples exhibit different values that they narrate from their culture that they use to follow in their cultures. 

Marriages is Karachi are celebrated by everyone, even the couple itself are not enjoying that much as compared to the other family members, but some people are meant to disturb the overall event by showing their anger and digging the old sad stories, so we have to manage them with us to make the event successful. Aunts (phuppies) play a vital role in almost every families to exploit the event, even in every family may be I am wrong here but it happens a lot that if you look closely at behind the scenes of the marriages there are some Phuppies involved who are forcefully invited to maintain the decorum of the family.

Rishte wali Aunties play a vital role in every society to bring the couple closer, they have all the variety of girls and boys with them to present in front of the parents and they charge their commission accordingly, believe it or not but it becomes a great business in our society as there are lot of girls who are unable to get married due to lot of demands from the families of boys and also some girls are not attractive or belong from poor families, that becomes the saddest part of our society, Being living in a well organized society we claim to be literate and ethical people but when the time of marriage come we all behave like we dont have daughters in front of us, we use to reject girls like they dont have heart or soul or we have the authority to say Whatever we have in our mind about a girl.

How we get married?

Every one in our society claims to be a Molvi or an adviser when we start talking with them, they always give lectures of simplicity and other things, but when the time comes for their own children marriages, they use to waist money on so many useless things that have no value in the upcoming life. People use to spent millions on a single marriage and give lectures of simplicity. How come it will happen if we all dont think in the same way. There is a pressure on both the families that they have to meet the standard that is being set by the so called society otherwise they will not be accepted or treated well in future. If the girls family dont give proper furniture to her daughter, all the other family members looses their mind and start criticizing. So How come it will be possible for a middle class person to marry their children.

Even the marriage for a boy becomes so much harded day by day that it becomes common that the average male age for marriage becomes 30 Years, because after completing his study he has to struggle for more than five years to save a handsome amount of money to bear all the expenses for his marriage. Due to that he prefer to pass his time by making girlfriends or dating because it is a human nature that we all are attracted to the opposite genders, we ourself are promoting vulgarity in our society by making marriages difficult.

Do you have your own house?

This is the most stupid question ever asked by a boy for his marriage, lets take an example a newly passout boy from university that luckily get a good job and he is average 25 years old, how come its possible to have his own house?? Why always families weigh the new relation on these materialistic things. Even if he has a house it must be be belong to his family. Its a common question that every girl parents use to ask before making a new relation.